To the Faraway From Their Friends Fan~

Question:

Do you think that time apart makes the heart grow fonder or pulls you apart?

Answer:

Hey Fan!

As always, I’m going to have to say, it depends on the circumstance.

Time apart from the people I love most is so healthy. Because I love them, but they drive me bat sh*t f*cking crazy and sometimes we just need to do our own thing. After a while apart, you come to appreciate the fact that you miss your loved ones. You realize that you want to turn to tell them something funny that happened or a joke you heard, but they’re not there. You remember why they are the person or people you love and that makes you grow fonder, I would say.

On the other hand, time spent apart can be destructive. If we’re talking about a newly developed relationship, could be romantic, it could be just a friendship; the lines are a bit blurrier. You don’t have that developed repartee, and you don’t really have much to grow fonder of when you are “missing” them. In this sense, I think that time apart has the opportunity to pull apart a relationship.

As I said, I think that this is a difficult one to call. It’s all up to the individual involved and from whom they are spending their time away.

Hope this helped!

XO, Maz

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