How do you tell a someone that you’re in love with them even though it doesn’t matter?
This is a question that I was asked in person. It was not anonymous, but I felt that my response in person was not as well developed as it could have been if I wrote it down.
So here it goes:
What you feel matters. What you feel is important and if you think that it’s a feeling as big as love; you can’t and won’t be able to repress it. It will tear you up worse than having them rip your heart out and stomp on it.
You have no idea how that person is feeling unless you ask, but you also have to open yourself up to the fact that it could hurt like hell if your feelings are not reciprocated.
Someone once told me, “no matter where you are, no matter who you meet, you are someone’s idea of perfect.” And if it doesn’t work out this time, there is still someone out there who is worth your feelings.
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